Im stuck between two women but dont want to hurt anyone!?

Try taking your girlfriend to a good specialist first of all because if it turns out that she'll never have sex with you its not going to work out in the long run anyways. Secondly, i think your sexual frustration has a lot to do with your "feelings" for this other woman- i think thats your little head talking to you, however,if your feelings for woman #2 are real and have been for the length of your relationship then i think that you have a difficult choice to make because unless youre willing to be a cheater and liar on a regular basis this is not going to work. Think hard about it, make a decision, and come clean.